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Déjà vu and the Truth of Reality

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Déjà vu and the Truth of Reality

Have you ever gone somewhere and you just felt that things were intense and familiar all at the same time? Some people have this happen to the point where they don’t even see people around them anymore. This is like a memory that has a lot of detail. Maybe you can see every detail like the sunlight beating down on you, birds chirping around you.

This can be such a vivid memory, but the problem is that when this happens, it can be hard to know if this is fake or if this is the truth of reality. This can happen when you experience mental illusions of déjà vu.

The memories that we have are sacred, and one of the biggest things that Aristotle taught us is that as a child is born, they gain knowledge and experience throughout their life. This can be learning to tie their shoes, their first day of going to school, or other memories that help people work through their present-day life. Sometimes we can sit and even remember different commercials or jingles from television ads that happened a long time ago. The thing is that memories are part of our individual identities.

Most of the memories that we have are quietly in our minds, and as we go about our lives, we take our memories for granted until they fail us. Some people suffer from sicknesses like seizures or tumors that can come out of nowhere. You might be healthy for one minute and then find out that something is wrong, and it can be a time of suffering.

If you’ve experienced seizures, this is an electrical discharge in the brain, and these are sometimes followed by an “aura,” which is like a small foreshock that can last a few minutes even before the seizure happens. This can be different depending on the patient.

Some people have extreme euphoria or might even orgasm when a seizure starts. With others, it can be just a change in perspective, stress, increased heart rate, or even auditory hallucinations.

John Hughlings Jackson

It was the late 1800s when English neurologist John Hughlings Jackson first gave a name to the strange, flickering sense of familiarity that often comes just before a seizure. He called it the epileptic aura. What he noticed was that these moments weren’t just odd sensations; they carried vivid mental images, like scenes replaying from memory, even when they weren’t real. One of his patients described it as watching the past return. Another spoke of being dropped into a place that felt familiar but impossible to place.

For me, this strange pull of recognition is the most intense part of my aura. It’s not just a passing feeling, but it’s like standing in a moment I swear I’ve already lived. During stronger seizures, and sometimes for days after, it’s hard to tell what’s real anymore. I find myself questioning everything, like, “Was that a dream?” “Did that happen last week?” “Am I remembering or imagining?”

Before epilepsy came into my life, déjà vu was a rare thing. Now it visits me often, sometimes up to ten times a day. The episodes come and go quickly, lasting only as long as a heartbeat, and I’ve yet to figure out what triggers them. There’s no clear pattern. They just arrive, brief, powerful, and disorienting, and then vanish.

For many of the 50 million people across the world who live with epilepsy, memory problems and emotional struggles are part of the long-term reality. And I won’t lie, sometimes I do wonder what might happen if I lose my grip on what’s real altogether. This blending of memory, imagination, and sensation feels like walking a tightrope some days. But learning more about déjà vu, about the strange crossroads between mind and memory, helps me stay grounded. It reminds me that even when my inner world feels like it’s shifting, there’s always a path back to what’s real. Even from that “strange place.”

Catch 22

Joseph Heller in “Catch 22” said that déjà vu was “a weird, occult sensation of having experienced the identical situation before in some prior time or existence.” Comedian Peter Cook had his own spin on it, humorously repeating the phrase, “this has happened before,” to capture the odd loop déjà vu can feel like.

The phrase itself comes from French, meaning “already seen.” It’s one of several strange memory experiences that leave us questioning what’s real and what isn’t. According to research from over 50 studies, around two-thirds of people say they’ve felt it at least once. For most, it’s just a passing glitch in memory like something curious, but not something that lingers.

But there’s a deeper, more unsettling cousin to déjà vu: déjà vécu. This one doesn’t just feel like a moment you’ve seen before. It feels like you’ve lived through entire events before, even down to every word, every gesture. It’s not quick, and it doesn’t fade the way déjà vu usually does. Even more troubling is that people who experience déjà vécu often can’t separate illusion from reality.

What sets déjà vu apart from déjà vécu is awareness. Most of us know, even in the moment, that our brain is playing tricks on us. There’s a kind of internal alarm that says, “This feels familiar, but it can’t be real.” With déjà vécu, that filter is gone. The brain stops checking and just accepts the illusion as fact.

Professor Chris Moulin, one of the leading researchers on this topic, recalls working at a memory clinic in Bath, England, when he met a patient whose case left a lasting impression. Back in 2000, Moulin received a referral for an 80-year-old retired engineer known only as AKP. The man had dementia, and as his brain changed, he began experiencing chronic déjà vécu—so much so that it ruled his daily life.

AKP had stopped watching TV and reading the paper because he believed he already knew how everything ended. His wife said it felt like he thought every moment had happened already. When he came to the clinic, he resisted even walking through the doors, convinced he’d already been there. On meeting Moulin for the first time, AKP insisted he remembered their previous conversations in detail, like conversations that had never happened.

Still, there was a strange kind of self-awareness tucked into his confusion. When asked how he could predict the ending of a TV show he’d never seen, AKP would simply reply, “How should I know? I have a memory problem.”

This is the strange tug-of-war that defines the déjà vu experience. Even hallucinations, like a vivid picnic in a wheat field, can feel as real as any personal memory, even when we know they’re not. Moulin explains that déjà vu often starts with a sense of familiarity. But sometimes, something more happens, like an image, or a moment takes on the weight of memory. The mind treats it like an accurate recollection, even when logic says it can’t be.

“There’s a feeling of pastness,” Moulin says. “It’s not just that something feels familiar, but it feels like a real memory returning.” And when that happens, even fiction can feel as solid as fact.

Some of the patients Professor Chris Moulin has worked with show a troubling trait known as “anosognosia.” In plain terms, it means they either don’t realize they’re dealing with a memory disorder, or they struggle to tell the difference between what really happened and what their mind created. Moulin recalls speaking with one woman who described her déjà vu as feeling exactly like her own real memories. In her mind, she’d flown into helicopters and lived through all sorts of extraordinary moments. These weren’t casual thoughts, but these memories felt real to her, and she spent long stretches trying to figure out if they had actually happened.

After meeting AKP, the elderly man who lived in a near-constant state of déjà vécu, Moulin became more curious about how these surreal experiences form. What is it, he wondered, that makes the brain feel so sure of something that never happened? He noticed that while people often talk about déjà vu, there wasn’t much reliable research exploring what caused it. So, he and his colleagues at the Language and Memory Lab at the University of Leeds decided to dive into it.

They focused their research on people with epilepsy and severe memory issues, hoping that by understanding their minds, they could uncover clues about why healthy brains also experience déjà vu. What they were really chasing wasn’t just an answer to a memory glitch, but a deeper question about how consciousness works.

But studying déjà vu in a lab is like trying to catch fog in your hands. These moments come and go in a flash. They’re unpredictable, hard to reproduce, and impossible to summon on demand. That left Moulin and his team with a tricky challenge: how do you study something that disappears the second you try to hold onto it?

Emile Boirac

Back in the late 1800s, a French philosopher named Émile Boirac tried to describe a strange experience he had. He found himself walking through a city he’d never been to before, yet everything felt eerily familiar, as if he’d already been there. To make sense of it, Boirac wrote to a philosophy journal and introduced a term that still sticks with us today: déjà vu, or “already seen.” His guess at the time was that this feeling came from a forgotten memory being stirred up by the present moment, like a faint mental echo.

That idea isn’t so far-fetched, and even today, it holds weight. But as time went on, other theories about déjà vu took us into stranger territory.

In the early 1900s, Sigmund Freud explored déjà vu experiences in his book The Psychopathology of Everyday Life. Most people remember that book for introducing the “Freudian slip,” but Freud also included a story about a woman who walked into her friend’s house for the first time and somehow knew what every room would look like before stepping inside. Today, we’d call that déjà visité, which is a sensation of having visited a place before, even though you haven’t.

Freud believed this wasn’t random. He thought it was the result of a hidden fantasy bubbling up when a person’s surroundings matched an unconscious desire. While parts of that theory still hang around in psychology, Freud, as he often did, took things too far. At one point, he even suggested that déjà vu might link back to a memory of a person’s time in the womb or an early fixation on the mother’s body. Understandably, that idea hasn’t aged well.

In 1983, South African neuropsychiatrist Vernon Neppe stepped in to give the experience a more grounded definition. He described déjà vu as the “inappropriate impression of familiarity” during a moment that shouldn’t feel familiar. Neppe also identified twenty different types of déjà vu experiences. Not all of them involve sight. There’s déjà entendu (already heard), déjà senti (already felt), and even cases of people born blind who still claim to have déjà vu sensations.

Unfortunately, thanks in part to Freud’s psychological explanations and their more extreme interpretations, déjà vu was eventually lumped in with paranormal claims. A Gallup poll in the early ’90s listed déjà vu alongside astrology, alien encounters, and ghosts. The sense of familiarity we sometimes feel became a playground for fringe ideas about ESP, time travel, and past lives.

That fringe status has held déjà vu back in scientific research circles for decades. Many researchers simply wrote it off as something too strange or unprovable to study seriously. Only recently, over a century after Boirac first named the phenomenon, are scientists beginning to peel back the layers and understand how our brains might be glitching like a momentarily misfiring computer, creating the illusion of a memory where none exists.

As neuroscientist Read Montague once put it, we’re all running on “wet computers.” Sometimes those machines make mistakes. And when they do, we might just find ourselves standing in a moment we’ve never lived but somehow remember anyway.

Hippocampus

The hippocampus is one of the most beautiful and vital parts of the brain. Shaped like a curled seahorse and nestled deep near the base of the brain on both sides, it plays a powerful role in how we store and recall our life experiences. The name itself comes from the Greek word for “seahorse,” and the visual resemblance is easy to see once you look at it.

It’s only been in the past few decades that researchers have started to truly understand the role this delicate structure plays. Back in the 1970s, a cognitive neuroscientist named Endel Tulving changed how we think about memory. He proposed that our memories fall into two main groups. The first group, called semantic memories, is general facts we know, things like the capital of a country or the date of a historical event. These types of memories don’t really carry personal meaning. The second group, which he called episodic memories, are the ones tied to specific life experiences, but like the time you visited a museum on a class trip when you were eleven. These memories help shape your sense of self.

With better brain imaging tools, Tulving found that episodic memories are not stored in one neat spot. Instead, the brain scatters the pieces across different regions and then pulls them together like a puzzle when you remember something. He believed this act of remembering was a kind of time travel, almost like mentally revisiting the moment all over again.

Most of these pieces come together in and around the hippocampus. It acts like a highly organized librarian. After information is processed by other areas of the brain, the hippocampus takes over to sort, link, and catalog everything into memory. It groups experiences by what’s familiar, like putting all your memories of visiting art galleries into one mental folder. These associations help you bring up the right memory at the right time later on.

This connection between memory and déjà vu is no coincidence. Many people who experience frequent déjà vu also have epilepsy that begins in the temporal lobe, which is the same part of the brain tied closely to memory and sensory processing. My own epilepsy is located there. This region, which sits just above the ear, is deeply involved in managing incoming information, making sense of what we hear, see, and feel. It’s also where many seizures that trigger déjà vu tend to originate.

Professor Alan S. Brown

Professor Alan S. Brown, who wrote The Déjà Vu Experience, proposed over 30 possible explanations for why déjà vu might happen. He suggested that anything from neurological disruptions to something as ordinary as being tired or overstimulated could be enough to trigger the sensation. In my own case, déjà vu became a regular experience after my brain surgery. I was mostly confined indoors, heavily medicated, and living in a hazy dreamlike state where sleep, pain relief, and reruns of old movies blurred together. That mental fog, combined with fatigue and overexposure to familiar sights and sounds, might have opened the door for déjà vu to appear more often than usual.

Brown also revisited an older theory known as divided perception, first introduced in the 1930s by psychologist Edward Titchener. Titchener believed that when our attention is split, like being distracted by a storefront right before stepping into the street, our brain might briefly process a moment without us fully noticing it. Then, when we focus again, it feels like we’re repeating something we already did. It’s not that we actually lived the moment twice, but our brain logged it into two pieces, creating the illusion of repetition.

Another theory from the 1960s came from Dr. Robert Efron, who worked with veterans. He suggested that the brain usually attaches a sort of timestamp to events to help us know when they occurred. But if that system lags for even a second, the brain might process an event and mark it as something that already happened, leading to the odd feeling that we’re reliving something even though it’s brand new.

Even with these different perspectives, both Brown and another leading researcher, Chris Moulin, agree that the hippocampus may be the key to it all. Since this part of the brain is so deeply involved in organizing memories by familiarity, it might be misfiring or getting “confused” during a déjà vu episode.

Brown believes these feelings are often triggered by unusual activity in the part of the brain that evaluates familiarity, most likely near the hippocampus, and often on the right side. Ironically, that’s exactly where a small lemon-shaped void sits in my brain, an area surgically removed during treatment for my epilepsy. That missing piece might be part of the reason why I experience déjà vu so intensely. It’s as if my mind is trying to match new moments with memories that no longer exist, constantly creating echoes in a room that’s no longer there.

Memory Glitches or Something More?

At Duke University, psychologist Alan Brown teamed up with Elizabeth Marsh to run an experiment that gave some insight into how déjà vu might work. Their idea was to see if the brain could confuse two memories just because they looked or felt similar. To test it, students from Duke and Southern Methodist University were shown a quick slideshow of campus photos, common places like dorms, libraries, and classrooms. A week later, they saw some of those same photos again, but with new ones slipped in, this time from the other school’s campus.

Even though some images were from unfamiliar locations, a number of students said they felt like they’d been there before. Why? Probably because a single element, like the way the chairs were arranged, or the color of the walls, was enough to spark a feeling of familiarity. This helped Brown and Marsh support their theory that déjà vu may happen when the brain grabs onto a detail and misfiles it as a personal memory.

Around the same time, Chris Moulin and Akira O’Connor from the University of Leeds were able to recreate déjà vu in a lab setting. They were studying how memory recall actually happens, how the brain checks if something really happened or just feels like it did.

Moulin believes that déjà vu is a sudden overreaction to something that feels familiar. The brain is constantly scanning for things it recognizes. But in moments of stress or even heightened awareness, it might misfire, triggering a false alarm that says, “Hey, we’ve seen this before!” Then another part of the brain kicks in to argue, “No, we haven’t,” and the confusion creates that eerie feeling we call déjà vu.

He compares the brain’s memory process to a sliding scale, from fully accurate memory at one end to extreme, ongoing déjà vécu at the other. Déjà vu sits somewhere in between, a momentary glitch rather than a full breakdown. But for people with neurological challenges like those with temporal lobe epilepsy, that tiny glitch can become a trap. Moulin describes it as being stuck in a mental loop, with no off-ramp back to reality. And that’s exactly what it can feel like when your brain doesn’t give you the signal that says, “This is new.”

But what about people without epilepsy? Why do so many healthy people experience déjà vu, too?

Brown says it’s pretty normal. Most people might feel it once or twice a year, maybe more if they’re tired, stressed, or in a relaxed state. It tends to happen indoors, often while hanging out with friends or during downtime. For some, it happens more often in the evening or over the weekend. The experience usually doesn’t last long, just a few seconds but it’s long enough to make people pause and wonder.

Some studies suggest there may even be a connection between dream recall and déjà vu. Brown has also found that certain personality traits may increase the likelihood of experiencing them. Younger people, frequent travelers, and those with more liberal or open-minded perspectives report déjà vu more often. Brown believes this makes sense, and well-traveled folks are more likely to stumble across similar places, and open-minded people may be more willing to admit to having strange mental moments.

Age is a more curious part of the equation. Normally, we associate forgetfulness or memory quirks with aging, but déjà vu seems to happen more often in younger people. Brown suspects that younger adults may simply be more in tune with their internal worlds and more likely to explore unusual experiences rather than dismiss them.

Back in the 1940s, a student named Morton Leeds kept a detailed journal of his own déjà vu experiences, where he recorded 144 in a single year. One of them was so intense that he said it almost made him physically sick. I get that. After my recent seizures, I’ve had similar moments where the déjà vu doesn’t just feel strange, but it leaves me feeling like my mind is being stretched too thin. I’ve had dream fragments crash into my thoughts out of nowhere. Conversations I’ve never had feel instantly familiar. Even doing something as simple as boiling water or reading a newspaper headline can feel like I’m watching a scene I’ve lived through a hundred times.

Sometimes these moments fade quickly. At other times, they leave a residue I can’t shake for hours. The repetition gets exhausting, like flipping through an album where every photo is the same. It’s mentally draining and emotionally hard to explain to someone who hasn’t lived it.

And still, I keep trying to figure it out. Finding clarity in how and why déjà vu happens feels like my best shot at understanding what’s happening in my brain and maybe easing some of the anxiety around it.

Final Thoughts

Last night, just before finishing this piece, I had another seizure. As it happened, I was certain, absolutely convinced, that I had already written the ending to this article. In my mind, the words were right there, laid out and done. But when I woke up the next day and pulled the document up, that part of the page was blank. Nothing was there. Another illusion.

And now, here I am, writing this for real. Or maybe writing it again. Either way, it’s like déjà vu all over again.

Understanding a Chakra Psychic Reading

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Chakra Psychic Reading

Chakras and Your Personality: What a Chakra Reading Can Tell You

When I first started giving chakra readings, I did them in-person workshops, events, and private sessions. Over time, I expanded to online readings, but something kept pulling at me.
I wanted to be able to give more, and I once thought about trying to draw out the aura and the chakras so that my clients could understand how the energy worked. Instead, I wondered if people would even understand it or if they would think I was just making it up.
Chakras can tell you about who you are and what is going on in your life. If you have things that are stuck, the chakras can tell you what needs to be healed. Once you see this, you can see how powerful it is, and you can show the clients what they need. If you want to know what your chakras say about your personality and where you need healing, keep reading.

What Can a Chakra Reading Show?

Some people who get chakra readings are surprised at how the energy can be explained in words. A chakra reading isn’t about just one chakra; it’s about how all of the seven main chakras work together to show you who and what you are. It can show if you have energy that is blocked or if you have any patterns that you need to work on, such as emotional baggage. It can even show what areas in your life need to be balanced.
Chakras influence everything in your body from your relationships to how you take care of yourself. They even affect your spiritual growth and what personality traits you have. When you see what your energy looks like, you can shift your energy to bring healing and clarity to your life.

Understanding Your Chakras

If you’ve never heard of chakras before, think of them as a wheel of energy that connects your physical body to your emotional and spiritual being. They help to show your experiences, how you behave, and your overall well-being. Here’s what each chakra represents for your life:
Root Chakra – Your foundation. This chakra is linked to safety, security, and stability. If it’s out of balance, you might feel anxious, ungrounded, or struggle with financial stress.
Sacral Chakra – Your creativity and pleasure. This energy center rules emotions, desires, and how open you are to joy. If blocked, you might struggle with self-expression or feel disconnected from your passions.
Solar Plexus Chakra – Your personal power. This is where confidence, motivation, and self-worth come from. An imbalance might show up as self-doubt or fear of taking action.
Heart Chakra – Your connection to love and relationships. If past emotional wounds still affect you, they’ll likely show up here. Healing the heart chakra allows you to give and receive love freely.
Throat Chakra – Your communication center. This chakra governs how you express yourself and tell you the truth. Blockages might cause difficulty speaking up or feeling unheard.
Third Eye Chakra – Your intuition and inner wisdom. This chakra helps you see beyond the surface and trust your instincts. If you struggle with clarity, decision-making, or overanalyzing, it may need balancing.
Crown Chakra – Your spiritual connection. This is where you tap into divine guidance and higher consciousness. When open, it brings inspiration, peace, and a sense of purpose.
When these chakras all work together, they show your personality, what strengths you have, and the challenges you face in your life.

Do Chakra Drawings Work?

Chakra drawings can show clients what their energy looks like. It helps to make things clearer. You might wonder about your solar plexus and what it means, and a chakra drawing can help.
Those who do chakra readings might be able to have a psychic that can draw what they see, and this helps them to see where the energy is and how it moves, and if it’s blocked. This can also help the psychic to track the client’s energy and to see the changes over time.
It can be so powerful to be able to see your own energy. If you’re a visual learner, this will be even better for you. Someone who has a strong third eye chakra can see that their chakra color can show them what they are feeling and if they are balanced. It can show them how the energies are flowing.

Getting a Chakra Reading

Once you’ve gotten your chakra reading, you need to see that you have to set intentions and have an open mind. Most people will need to clear blockages from one chakra, but some will need to have many chakras cleared. It’s important to set intentions on which chakras need to have work.
Look at what happened in the reading and what stood out to you. Did you have any patterns? Could you feel where your energy was blocked? When you know these things, you can start making changes. You can meditate, visualize, get energy healing, or balance your chakras another way.
If you need to talk to someone, find a psychic that does chakra balancing and you can get the help that you need to clear your energy blocks and to get your chakras balanced. This is great for those who are beginning and who need to have a little help with where to start and what to do.

Final Thoughts

We all have seven chakras in our body and each of these chakras show our emotions and our personality. This is how we work with the world. If you ever feel stuck or you don’t feel like you’re connected, a chakra reading can help you to understand yourself more.
Do you need to see what your energy looks like? Are you ready to see how chakras can change your life? If you are curious about this, keep an open mind and find out more about your chakras by getting a chakra psychic reading today!

Seeing Into the Future

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Seeing Into the Future

Many people desire to see the future, but because of this, they sometimes forget to live in the present. Whether you want to live in the present or see the future, how you spend your day can help you see things differently and can even increase your chances of seeing the future.

Opening your eyes to the future is something that you can build. If you are a leader or you are someone who would benefit from this, keep reading and find out how to see better in the future.

Brain Prediction Making

You might know that your brain makes predictions almost all the time. You might wonder what is going to happen next from moment to moment. Being proactive in this means that you can prepare for whatever is going to happen in the future. You have a way to see if there is a probability of something happening. This can also mean that you can limit the damage when you miss an opportunity or a chance.

If you are able to see better into the future, you can see things that other people can’t. You will see chances and opportunities that people won’t even expect or imagine. You might even be able to make plans for challenges that can come to you that other people aren’t prepared for. This allows you to make changes and to be ready. If you need to understand what is going to happen or to be more innovative, you can try these tips and have success.

Seeing Into the Future

Making Associations

The knowledge that your brain picks up is beyond words. You have interconnected things, and this information comes and goes throughout your day, week, month, year, and life. It is part of your past experiences and what you go through daily.

These experiences sometimes stop you from being able to see into the future, though, because sometimes your brain will look at the patterns and your thoughts and will not realize when something new comes up.

If you decide to be efficient with your energy, then you will see that your brain can take familiar things and piece them together to make associations with your thoughts.

Even though the future will sometimes be similar to the past, the way that you think will give you a way of change. Instead of shifting your thoughts, just change the way that you see them.

Instead of relying on your associative paths in your brain, you need to look at things that connect your short term to your long-term thoughts. Think of concepts that you have never put together before and practice at doing it over and over again.

Set Goals

People sometimes let their minds wander. They do this to get through their day and to get through their thoughts. Instead of setting goals though, people often just think about the future without having a real plan.

Once you set your goals, you will consider how you can reach them. You need to examine the various events in your life and make predictions about what might happen. Then, you can set a plan.

Use your mentality to create plans, and this can help you reach your goals. Look at the possibilities, challenges, opportunities, and consequences you face and see what this tells you.

This means, though, that you have to think away from your normal life and your daily tasks. Doing this can help you to understand your future better so that you can prepare yourself.

Ask Questions

Be like children who are constantly asked questions. Ask questions like you did as a child. Sometimes, when we become adults, we stop asking questions, and this means that we aren’t getting the knowledge that we need. Find out the answers to the questions that you ask.

Figure out what questions that you ask that you can’t answer right away. Ask questions that start with “what if?” or “why?” These questions make you wonder about things and make you think. Even if the question isn’t comfortable, this is good because it allows you to look at your future.

Doing this allows you to see what others cannot see. This is something that people don’t even often consider doing. Asking these kinds of questions allows you to create a safe place in your life. If you ask these questions at work, know that this should give you power, and your opinions and ideas should be respected and encouraged.

Using a Psychic after Trauma

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Using a Psychic after Trauma

Psychic gifts can help people heal, particularly by addressing past trauma. Trauma often leaves people feeling negative and can disrupt their energy. With the help of a psychic, individuals can explore their energies, find support, and heal their emotional, mental, and physical well-being.

Cleansing Energies

Psychics can identify energy blocks that may stem from trauma or other negative experiences. They assess the chakras to determine if any need healing or an emotional release.

Past Life Information

Some individuals seek to understand how past lives affect their present. Psychics can uncover whether current trauma relates to a past life and identify patterns to foster healing.

Spiritual Guides

A medium can facilitate a connection with spiritual guides, providing insights into alternate healing paths.

Intuitive Counseling and Therapy

Psychics offer a safe and compassionate space for expressing emotions. They explore various therapeutic approaches to guide individuals on their healing journey.

Understanding Your Future

Psychics can provide a glimpse into the future, offering hope and new perspectives on trauma, which may accelerate the healing process.

Empathy and Healing

Empathy is a powerful tool for healing trauma. Psychics use their empathic abilities to connect with clients’ emotions, fostering a sense of support and love.

Listening

Psychics are attentive listeners who offer guidance without judgment. Their empathetic nature ensures a safe and supportive environment for healing.

Energy Bonding

Energy bonding facilitates the release of negative emotions, fosters recovery from traumatic events, and strengthens the connection between the individual and the psychic.

Understanding Your Emotions

Psychics validate and deeply understand their clients’ emotions, helping them process feelings without suppression. This approach is vital for healing.

Conclusion

If you’ve experienced trauma and need support, seeking a reputable psychic can bring healing and compassion into your life.

Best Strategies for Promoting Psychic Readings Online

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Best Strategies for Promoting Psychic Readings Online

In today’s psychic world, it’s important to know that psychic readings are at a higher demand than ever before. People seek guidance when things are troubling in their lives from relationships to career guidance. If you are an affiliate and you are promoting your site, psychic readings can give you a way to connect with those who are looking for trusted services. This can help you to make more income.

As you read, you will see the best ideas for promoting psychic readings online. From making good content to using social media posts to using the best SEO, you can build a trusted site. Each tip helps you to reach your clients who are interested in psychic services and can lead you to conversions.

Why Psychic Reading Promotions Work

Promotions for psychic online readings work because psychic services are emotional and personal. People feel comfortable getting the guidance that they need online, and they know that they can connect with a psychic from the privacy of their own home.

Here’s what digital marketing allows:

  • To Reach a Targeted Clientele: You can find people who are searching for psychic readings such as tarot card readings or astrology. These are people interested in those services and would love promotions.
  • Information: Make sure that you provide valuable content for the clients to read such as educational blogs and articles.
  • Trust: In the psychic world, you can use affiliates to build trust and credibility.

Building the Right Content

One of the best ways to build trust is to have the right content. This is a way that you can give valuable information, and you can answer questions that your clients have. By offering knowledge and education to readers, you can draw organic traffic from those that are seeking psychic information.

How to Move Traffic

  • Discuss the Types of Readings: Talk about the different types of psychic readings that are offered from astrology, tarot card readings to clairvoyant and more. This helps them to pick the right services.
  • Preparing for a Reading: Discuss how they can best prepare and what to expect from their first psychic reading.
  • Love and Relationships: Give guidance on love and relationships and tell how this can give them clarity.
  • Benefits of Getting a Reading: Talk about how a reading can benefit them and help them to move on when things are hard.

Creating blog posts and articles will draw in your clients, and you should make sure you have the right keywords, such as “psychic readings online now.”

SEO

Search Engine Optimization allows clients to find your website. If you use the right keywords and you put them throughout your content, you can help people to find you that are looking for psychic services.

Using SEO Effectively

  • Keyword Research: Use keyword research such as Ahrefs or Google Keyword Planner to help you find the right keywords to use.
  • Using Keywords: Make sure that your keywords are used strategically like in headings and subheadings.
  • Optimize: Create answers for common questions such as, “What will I expect when getting a psychic reading?”
  • Backlinks: Create backlinks from reputable sites and boost your SEO.

Using the right SEO strategy will help you to make sure that your information ranks high and will drive more traffic to your site.

Social Media

Use social media for engagement and this will allow you to connect directly with your clients and will build a community based around spiritual content.

Here are some of the best social media platforms to use:

  • Instagram: This has visual appeal and can be used to leave quotes and to give information on tarot card readings by using hashtags like #bestpsychicreadings.
  • Pinterest: You can make pins of your guides and tips, and they can be used on your landing page.
  • Facebook: Use this to create spiritual groups where you can answer questions and support your clients by giving them answers.

Social media is a great way to become trusted and recognized by clients who are looking for answers.

Video Content

Video content is a way that you can add personal videos so that users can see who you are, and they can hear you talking. This is a great way to build trust.

Here are some great ideas for video content:

  • Live Readings: You can do your own live readings right from this site and you can show people what it will be like to get their own reading.
  • Educational: Use educational videos to explain things like psychic gifts or psychic readings.
  • Personal Stories: Talk about the times that getting a psychic reading helped you to be better in your life.

Video content helps you to show off your psychic services and can show people that you are relatable and trustworthy.

Building Strong Connections with Email Marketing

Email marketing is a great way to stay connected with clients and keep them engaged over time. By sharing insights, tips, and occasional promotions, you can build trust and create lasting relationships with those interested in psychic guidance.

How to Use Email Marketing Effectively

  • Offer a Free Resource: Encourage sign-ups by offering something valuable, like a “Beginner’s Guide to Tarot or How to Connect with Your Intuition.” This gives new subscribers a reason to join your list.
  • Customize Content for Different Clients: Not all clients seek the same guidance. Those interested in love readings might appreciate relationship-focused emails, while others may prefer career or spiritual growth content.
  • Provide Value in Every Email: Instead of focusing on selling, send out weekly or monthly emails with affirmations, intuitive tips, or helpful articles. Readers will appreciate content that adds value to their lives.
  • Share Special Offers and Services: Occasionally highlight trusted services like PsychicOz, explaining how a reading can help provide clarity and insight.

By building a loyal email list, you create an ongoing connection with clients while providing recommendations that feel natural and helpful.

Encouraging Action with Calls-to-Action

A strong Call-to-Action (CTA) encourages clients to take the next step, whether that’s exploring a psychic reading, signing up for an email list, or reading more content.

Creating Effective CTAs

  • Use Clear, Engaging Language: Instead of generic phrases like Click Here, try Find Your Path with a Trusted Psychic or Discover What’s Ahead for You Today.
  • Creating a Sense of Urgency: Encouraging immediate action can be effective. Phrases like Limited Time Offer or Start Your Journey Today give readers a reason to act quickly.
  • Position CTAs Naturally: Place CTAs at key points in your content, such as after discussing the benefits of a psychic reading or sharing a compelling story.

Reaching More Clients Through Influencer Partnerships

Working with influencers in the spiritual space can expand your reach and introduce psychic services to new audiences.

How to Collaborate with Influencers

  • Find the Right Influencers: Look for those who have an engaged following in areas like self-discovery, alternative healing, or personal growth. Their audience is more likely to be interested in psychic services.
  • Focus on Meaningful Content: Work with influencers to create engaging, informative content rather than just promoting services. This could be an in-depth discussion on tarot, astrology insights, or personal experiences with psychic readings.
  • Use Affiliate Links for Tracking: Providing influencers with unique affiliate links makes it easy to track referrals and measure the success of your partnership.

Paid Advertising

Paid ads can help you to reach more clients. Using Facebook, Google Ads, and other platforms offers your clients a place to see what they are interested in, such as personal growth or astrology.

Here’s how to run effective ads:

  • Target Interests: Use targeting to offer people things they are interested in like tarot card readings or psychic readings.
  • Engaging Ad Copies: Use headlines that tell what your clients need, such as, “Are you needing clarity in your relationship?”
  • Visuals: Use visuals that your clients can relate to, such as calming scenes or someone giving a tarot card reading.

Benefits of Trusted Sites

When you promote a site that is reputable then you will look more trustworthy and credible to your clients. PsychicOz is a strong choice for affiliates. It will lead your clients to a place where they can get a reputable and honest reading while earning $150 per new client sign-up.

Final Thoughts

Promoting psychic readings is one great way that you can reach more clients. As you build content and engage your clients, you will be able to reach more people, which will turn into conversions. Using social media, video content, and more will create a trusted platform that your clients can turn to in times of need.

Avoiding Creepy Men: Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries and Staying Safe

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Avoiding Creepy Men

Navigating the dating world can be a fun and exciting journey, but it’s not without its challenges. One common issue that many women face is encountering men whose behavior feels uncomfortable, inappropriate, or downright creepy. Whether it’s unwanted advances, disrespectful comments, or persistent attention that crosses personal boundaries, knowing how to avoid creepy men and protect your well-being is essential for maintaining your safety and confidence. In this article, we’ll explore practical tips for recognizing creepy behavior, setting boundaries, and ensuring your interactions are both safe and respectful. Remember, your comfort and security should always come first, and there’s no shame in taking steps to protect yourself from unwanted attention.

What Defines Creepy Behavior?

Before diving into how to avoid creepy men, it’s important to understand what makes someone’s behavior cross the line from harmless to creepy. While everyone has their own comfort levels, certain behaviors are universally recognized as inappropriate and uncomfortable. “Creepy” generally refers to actions or words that feel invasive, disrespectful, or make you feel unsafe.

Common Signs of Creepy Behavior:

  • Persistent Unwanted Attention: Repeatedly texting, calling, or approaching you even after you’ve shown disinterest or asked them to stop.
  • Overly Forward Comments or Touching: Making inappropriate comments about your appearance or personal life, or touching you without consent.
  • Ignoring Boundaries: Failing to respect your personal space, ignoring your attempts to create distance, or pushing for more attention despite your discomfort.
  • Stalking or Excessive Monitoring: Following you, showing up uninvited to places you frequent, or keeping tabs on your whereabouts.
  • Disregarding Social Cues: Not picking up on clear signals that you’re not interested, such as body language or lack of engagement in the conversation.

Recognizing these signs early on can help you take action before the situation escalates.

1. Trust Your Instincts

Your intuition is one of your best tools for avoiding creepy men. If someone’s behavior makes you feel uneasy or uncomfortable, trust that feeling. Even if you can’t pinpoint exactly why something feels off, it’s important to listen to your instincts. Often, your gut reaction is picking up on subtle cues that your conscious mind might not immediately register.

Don’t Dismiss Your Feelings: It’s common to second-guess yourself or downplay your feelings, especially if the person isn’t being overtly aggressive. However, if something feels wrong, it’s important to take it seriously.

Example: If you’re on a date and the person keeps leaning into your personal space or making overly flirtatious comments despite your clear disinterest, don’t hesitate to cut the date short. You’re not obligated to stay in a situation that makes you uncomfortable.

2. Set Clear Boundaries

Setting boundaries is key to avoiding unwanted advances from creepy men. Boundaries help define what is acceptable behavior and communicate your expectations clearly. The earlier you set these boundaries, the less likely it is that someone will overstep them.

Communicate Directly: If someone’s behavior makes you uncomfortable, don’t be afraid to speak up. Use clear and assertive language to let them know what you’re not okay with. It’s important to be direct without feeling the need to justify or explain your boundaries.

Example: If a man is getting too close or making inappropriate comments, a simple “I’m not comfortable with this” or “Please stop” can be effective in setting the tone. If the behavior persists, it’s perfectly acceptable to leave the situation entirely.

3. Use Body Language to Reinforce Your Boundaries

In addition to verbal communication, your body language can be a powerful tool in avoiding unwanted attention. How you carry yourself and respond non-verbally can send a strong message about your boundaries.

Maintain a Confident Posture: Stand tall, make eye contact, and keep your body language open but assertive. Avoid shrinking back or looking down, as this can be interpreted as a lack of confidence or unwillingness to assert yourself.

Example: If someone is standing too close, take a step back and create more physical distance. If they ignore this cue and continue to invade your space, it’s a clear sign they’re disregarding your boundaries, and it’s time to remove yourself from the situation.

4. Be Cautious with Personal Information

When interacting with someone new, especially in the context of dating or casual encounters, it’s important to be mindful of how much personal information you share. Creepy men may try to use this information to overstep boundaries or track your movements.

Limit What You Share Early On: Avoid sharing too many personal details, such as where you live, your daily routine, or where you spend your free time until you’re sure the person is trustworthy. Be especially cautious about sharing your phone number, address, or social media profiles with someone you’ve just met.

Example: If someone is overly curious about your personal life and keeps pressing you for details that feel invasive, don’t feel obligated to answer. You can politely say, “I’d rather not share that,” and steer the conversation in a different direction.

5. Have an Exit Strategy

It’s always a good idea to have an exit strategy when meeting someone new, whether it’s a first date or a social encounter. If you ever feel uncomfortable, having a plan to leave quickly can help you avoid an escalating situation.

Meet in Public Places: When meeting someone for the first time, choose a public setting where there are plenty of people around. This not only provides a level of safety but also gives you the opportunity to leave without feeling trapped.

Example: Let a friend or family member know where you’re going and who you’re meeting. You can also set up a code word or message that signals you need a call or excuse to leave if things start feeling uncomfortable.

6. Don’t Feel Obligated to Be Polite

Many women feel pressure to be polite and accommodating, even when they’re uncomfortable. However, you don’t owe anyone your time or attention, especially if their behavior is inappropriate. It’s okay to be firm, assertive, and even “rude” if necessary to protect your boundaries.

Practice Saying No: It’s perfectly fine to decline an invitation, ignore a message, or walk away from a conversation if it’s making you uncomfortable. You’re not responsible for someone else’s feelings, especially if they’re ignoring your boundaries.

Example: If a man is making persistent advances despite your lack of interest, there’s no need to soften your rejection. A clear “No, I’m not interested” is enough. If he continues to push, that’s a red flag, and you have every right to leave.

7. Block and Report Unwanted Contact

In the digital age, creepy behavior often extends to online interactions, whether through dating apps, social media, or messaging platforms. If someone is making you uncomfortable online, don’t hesitate to block and report them.

Take Control of Your Online Spaces: Use the block or mute features on social media or dating platforms to cut off contact with anyone who crosses the line. Most platforms also allow you to report inappropriate behavior, which helps keep the space safe for others as well.

Example: If someone you met online starts sending inappropriate messages or trying to contact you multiple times despite your lack of interest, block them immediately. You don’t need to engage or explain yourself before doing so.

Final Thoughts: Prioritize Your Safety and Comfort

Avoiding creepy men isn’t about living in fear or constantly being on guard—it’s about empowering yourself to set boundaries, trust your instincts, and prioritize your comfort and safety. It’s okay to remove yourself from situations that make you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, and you should never feel pressured to tolerate inappropriate behavior. Remember that you have the right to say no, to set limits, and to protect your personal space and well-being. By practicing these tips and staying confident in your boundaries, you can navigate interactions with greater ease and avoid unwanted attention.

Who Are Spiritual Healers?

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Spiritual Healers

Spiritual healers are people that have gone through hard things. These are people that have gone through something hard and traumatic, and they beat the challenges in front of them. They then heal and go from darkness to light, and they become healers. They don’t just heal others, but they also heal themselves.

A spiritual healer is someone that listens to their soul and they let it guide them to humans that need healing around them. They become mentors and they help others on their healing journey. People that are coaches, guides, mentors, and healers are people that have gone through some kind of hard time, and they have had to grow and develop through their own life experiences.

There are different reasons why people become spiritual healers and there are different types of healings that they do.

Wanting to Be Light

As a mentor, it is important to have a passion to bring light to others. This is part of the support for the journey of a mentor. They seek out the light and they remember their darkest times so that they can help others find the light.

Healing can be one of the hardest things that someone goes through in their life. They have to walk through the painful journey of darkness, and they have to experience the emotional pain and hurt that they don’t want to hold on to. But at the same time, these things are limiting their life and are hard to let go of even if they don’t want to.

Healing is a time where you say, “I went through a challenging and hard time but instead of it breaking me, I want to get better because of it. I want to get rid of fear and become stronger.”

As you go through your own healing journey you can become exhausted and overwhelmed by the emotional pain that hurt can carry. It can leave you feeling alone and scared. As you stay committed to fighting past this you will see that your heart can let go of the pain and you can get the support to help yourself and others.

Healing can be a lonely place and it can be exhausting. It can cause your mind to trick you into believing that you don’t even need to be healed.

Becoming a mentor or a healer often happens because you want to see other people to be able to move from darkness into light. When you don’t want others to have to be alone in their healing, you become a mentor to help them to be guided in their darkest moments. You use your inner light to move them.

Emotional Exhaustion

As an empath it can be tiring and emotionally exhausting. This happens because empaths see things that others don’t see, and they feel things that others don’t feel. They are able to feel the energy that other people have. When you look at someone you don’t feel their anger, but an empath does. If you aren’t sad and then out of nowhere you are, you’re probably an empath. Empaths can feel things before a person shows the emotion.

Emotional weight can be hard, and it can be hard to have good boundaries when you’re an empath. Once you understand your empathic abilities you can see that this can be part of your journey. Your emotions and energies can show you how important boundaries are.

As you learn your life lessons and you allow your soul to heal, you bring healing to others. Instead of having fear, you need to let go of worry and move forward in your life.

Fear can leave you bound and can cause you to have doubt and worry. It can be emotions that you experience in your energy. As you carry these things, you will feel that you lack in your spiritual self. You will see that the emotions that you have can create fear around you and it can cause you to have lack.

There are things that empaths experience that affect their life such as:

• Stress and pressure.
• Burnout.
• Exhaustion.
• Gossip, judgement and drama.
• Fear of judgement.
• Self-doubt.
• Insecurities.
• Pain.
• Anger.
• Depression.
• Stress.
• Anxiety.
• Feeling lost.

There are strategies that empaths can use in order to be stronger and to be more aware of their energies. As you learn to create boundaries and you learn to feel safe and protected then you can have love and compassion for yourself and others. This allows you to create a positive and happy place in your life.

Some people become healers to support empaths and help them to cope and help them to be able to face their emotions. They have strong gifts and its important that they have boundaries that allow them to feel supported in their healing and to protect their energies.

Valuing Yourself

So many people feel that they have no value, and they feel unloved and underappreciated. They want to be seen and they want to be heard. They have a desire to be worthy and to have value. They desire to no longer be insecure.

Some healing journeys have to focus on a fear of judgement because they have to learn that everyone has an opinion but that doesn’t make you who you are. As you face your self-doubt you can see that you are often judging yourself more than others are judging you.

Sometimes you are the worst enemy for yourself that there is. Don’t wait around for people to love you and to make you feel worthy but find people that will support you and help you to love yourself. Find people that will show you what is stopping you from being the best you can be and believing in yourself.

As a guide, healers can help you to know things even if you can’t see them or even if they aren’t logical. Spiritual healers can help you to see that you are worthy and can understand your feelings. They can help you to create your dreams and to reach them. They can help you to value ourself and to support you in love.

Spiritual people become healers to guide people to be the best that they can be.

Final Thoughts

When you find that you need to heal, talk to a spiritual healer, and let them guide you down the right path. Let them mentor you and support you and help you to see that you do in fact have worth and strength. Don’t let your exhaustion or your fear cause you to miss out on what you want or who you are.

Relationship Red Flags

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Relationship Red Flags

Some people are great partners in relationships. They are full of love and compassion, and they are selfless but not everyone is lucky enough to find a partner like this. There are many people that date others that are selfish and rude. If you feel that you have a partner that is putting everyone else first, you need to deal with this and not ignore this red flag.

Having a Partner That’s Selfish

You might wonder if your partner is being selfish. Having a partner that is selfish is someone that is putting their own needs above your own needs. They will do whatever it takes to have personal gain, and this will cause the relationship to lack.

These are people that are often insensitive to whatever their partner needs and they are selfish and want attention while refusing to give the same in return. They live a life where they care about their own wellbeing, and they don’t care if they satisfy their partners or their relationship.

Red Flag of Selfishness

Maybe you feel that your partner is always be selfish and if you feel that this is a concern because they are inconsiderate of you, consider getting out of the relationship. Being selfless means that someone is able to compromise and sacrifice for you. The same things that you would do for them they would do in return for you.

The bad news is that so many people are self-centered, and they are selfish in all instances, including being in a relationship. They might even be the type of people that are kind to everyone around you and so you know they can be, yet they decide that they won’t treat you with that same respect.

This is a big red flag because the way that they act affects you in all areas of your life. It is best to avoid this kind of person because staying fit them will likely lead to disappointment and could even turn into manipulation and abuse.

How Does Selfishness Affect You?

Being with someone that is selfish can affect your overall health and wellbeing. You need to find out if you are dating someone that is selfish because here is how this can affect your life:

    • Leave you feeling emotionally exhausted for always having to care for their needs.
    • Not able to have good communication which leads to misunderstandings.
    • Lowering your self-esteem and your self-worth.
    • Not being able to trust your partner.
    • Building of resentment which can cause there to be a strain on the relationship.

Dating a Selfish Lover

There are also people that are selfish in other things like being selfish in bed. This means that your sexual relationship will never be what you hope that it will be. Here are some things that you might notice if you are with a selfish lover:

  • They Don’t Compromise

Selfish people don’t believe in compromising, and they will never put in effort to make you feel that you are important or that you have a say. They will make their partners do what they want and only what they want.

  • They Don’t Care if You’re Upset

Another problem with this kind of person is that they don’t care if they hurt your feelings or if you’re upset with them. You might wonder what their problem is and why they don’t care.

  • They Plan Without Asking

Selfish people will make plans without asking you and if it isn’t convenient for you or if you have other plans, they get mad at you. They also schedule things at last minute or do whatever they want without taking you into consideration.

  • Making Excuses

This kind of person will always give you excuses as to why they act the way that they do. If they don’t answer you for days, they will tell you that they were tired or they will give you a reason that makes no sense.

  • Unwilling to Satisfy You

Someone that is a selfish lover will not take the time to try and satisfy you but will only meet their own needs. They will want you to give them all the attention and they will give you one sided love. The relationship will be unbalanced.

  • Self-Centeredness

Selfish partners are also self-centered, and they will want everything to be based around them from the conversation to whatever they want to do. They won’t care if something bothers you, instead they will want to talk about themselves and they will have no respect for your thoughts or feelings. There will be a lack of connection.

  • Ignoring Suggestions

When you try to make a suggestion to make the relationship better, they will ignore your suggestions and do whatever they want. They will not want to hear you and they will feel like you are criticizing them.

  • No Empathy

A selfish person has a hard time knowing what your needs and desires are because they only care about their own. They will put their own desires first and their own feelings above everyone else’s.

  • They Care About Their Needs Only

One of the biggest sign that you are dating someone that is selfish is that they will always put their own needs first. This means that they will make decisions without asking you and they will neglect you and leave you feeling resentful and hurt.

  • Red Flags of a Selfish Partner

Knowing that you are dating a selfish partner can help you to know what you are going to do. You should be in a relationship without stress and aggravation and one that is stable and healthy. By being able to know the behavior of a selfish person, you will be able to make a decision on what you should do next. Here are some red flags to watch out for!

  • They Celebrate Themselves But Not You

When they do something good, they celebrate themselves and they want you to celebrate them, too. But they won’t celebrate you. They give importance to what they do but they aren’t interested in the good things that you do, and they leave you feeling invisible.

  • They Care About Themselves More

Instead of being a team, they only care about their own happiness. They don’t consider what will happen if you continue to feel disconnected.

  • Controlling

Selfish people are often controlling and narcissistic. They want you to be kind and caring to them, but they make these rules for you, but they don’t follow them. They want you to tell them everything you are going to do, and they don’t care if they hurt you or make you angry. The relationship is unequal.

  • They Don’t Ask About Your Day

Selfish people don’t ask about your day because they don’t care. They only care about what their day was like.

  • They Ruin Your Success

When you are happy about something successful that you did, they ruin this by undermining you. They want to be better than you.

  • Not Listening

Instead of letting you talk and listening to you, they interrupt you in everything that they say. They want to argue and talk over you, and they are defensive.

  • They Make You Beg

One big sign of a selfish person is when they want you to beg to have things your way. You should never have this and there should be balance.

  • They Leave You With Nothing

This person will take everything that you have from your attention to your finances until you have nothing left for yourself. They are selfish and they only care about what they can get.

  • They Decide to Make the Relationship Stay or Go

When your partner is ready for things to grow, it will grow but if they aren’t, it won’t. They make all the decisions on your relationship.

  • They Don’t Care What You Need

You might express things that you want and need but they don’t listen, or they belittle you or call you selfish or a baby. They don’t recognize that you have needs but they only see their own.

  • Irresponsible

They are irresponsible in their behavior and how they treat you. They never admit that they make a mistake, but they blame you and have no accountability. They won’t even apologize when they hurt your feelings.

  • Impulsive

They put their own needs first and this means that they will react any way that they want without even thinking about it. They will show anger and jealousy and they will refuse to have any empathy for your feelings.

  • Needing Attention

Selfish people only care about what they can get, and they want your constant attention. They don’t care what you need and how your needs are or aren’t being met, they just want you to meet theirs.

  • Emotionally Unavailable

A selfish partner is one that won’t be able to connect with you on any level, even emotionally. This means that they won’t be able to meet your emotional needs and when something needs to be talked about, they will shut down and not support you or hear you.

  • Disrespectful Talking

This kind of person will talk to you in a way that is disrespectful for you. They will interrupt you and ignore what you are thinking. There will be no intimacy or trust.

  • Lack of Commitment

A selfish partner has not thoughts or feelings about hurting or disappointing you because they have no regards for your feelings. They won’t care if they make plans and don’t follow through and they have a lack of commitment.

  • Self-Centered Sex

Sex in the bedroom is all about them. They want you to satisfy them and to meet their desires, but they don’t care about what your bedroom needs are.

  • Ignoring Your Feelings

They ignore what you are feeling, and they have no interest in what emotions that you have. If you’re disconnected from them, they don’t have any remorse.

  • Betraying Trust

This kind of partner is one that will not care if they betray your trust, and they might do this by cheating on you or by treating you poorly. They will have no remorse in how they make you feel, and this will cause a lot of pain.

Dealing with a Selfish Partner

You must understand that you’re dating a selfish partner, and you need to make sure that you are taking an effort to improve your life, even if that means leaving them. It can be hard to know how to deal with them but as you learn to work through the situation, you can see change, or you can always know that you have the right to leave.

A selfish person can change and put effort into the relationship and if they decide that they are going to change, you will have to be patient with them, but you will also need to set boundaries. These are boundaries that will allow you to have self-respect.

If you and your partner are committed to changing and getting the help that you need, see a counselor, and let them help you and your partner to move forward through these red flags. A selfish person can love you and have feelings for you if they are willing to change the way that they treat you and if they will put your needs first.

Selfish partners will usually pout their needs above yours and it is important that there are boundaries and that you are able to talk about these issues and to leave if necessary.

This kind of relationship can be draining, and it can cause you to be hurt and resentful. By having open communication and working through these things though, you can evolve, and you can have a better love connection than ever before. Remember, love yourself and have enough self-respect that you will leave if need be but if you decide to work through the problems, know that good days can be part of your journey.

Don’t Say These things When Manifesting

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Manifesting

Some people don’t know how powerful their words are and the thing is that manifesting can happen but if you are speaking negatively all the time then you are just ruining any chances of getting what you want.

Your words work with the Law of Attraction and if you are speaking negativity into the universe then that is what you’re going to get back. The words that you say have certain vibrations and when you are speaking negatively the vibrations are low.

There are too many times in life that people let negative talk come out of their mouth and then they wonder why bad things keep happening to them. Instead of talking about what you don’t want and what you can’t have, change your talk.

Here are some things that you should stop saying if you want to manifest:

  • The Word “Don’t”

Instead of focusing on the word don’t, say something that you want and something that you are going to do. The Law of Attraction will bring things that you say into fruition. Instead of saying, don’t, say do.

  • The Word “Can’t”

Another word to avoid is the word can’t. If you are saying that you can’t do something, then you probably won’t be able to. Don’t say things that are impossible but speak the things that you can do.

  • The Words “He, She or They”

Avoid saying statements that are directed at other people. Manifest things for yourself and avoid putting others in that place. Set your goals to change yourself and not to change others. Look internally at your own energy and say your affirmations around yourself. Say things like, “Me or I” and don’t use other people in your equation.

  • The Word “Maybe”

Instead of saying maybe, say definitely. Be clear about what you want and set your intentions. Also, know what you don’t want. Don’t leave room for there to be a maybe in the equation. Say what you desire and get it.

  • The Word “Not”

This is a word that you need to avoid when manifesting. This word is a negative statement and when you focus on not having something then you will continue to not have something. If you don’t want to get something, set your affirmations and be clear. Say something like “I won’t be poor,” instead of saying, “I don’t want to be poor.”

Reframe how you think and how you say things and make sure that you are calling what you want and not what you want to avoid.

  • The Word “Will”

You will do something? It sounds like you have already given up before you even get started. Saying will is going to lessen your vibrations. Learn to say, “I am” instead of “I will.” As you direct your sayings into positive things, you will see them happen.

  • The Words “Going To”

Exactly when are you going to do it? These are words that you should avoid when you want to manifest something. This phrase is like saying it might or might not happen. You have to be positive and to believe that something is going to happen and not just wait for it.

  • The Words “I Wish”

This is another word that means that you aren’t sure what is going to happen. When you spew out insecurity then chances are you aren’t going to get what you want. You need to not doubt your manifestation if you want to see it happen for you.

  • The Word “Need”

Need is a word that means that you aren’t going to let go of what you are trying to get, and it is a word based around fear. If you are always worried about what is going to happen then you will lower your vibrations. Surrender what you are needing and get what you want.

  • The Word “Must”

This is a word that says that you are attached to something, and you need to learn to be more open to what you want and what is the best thing for you. Let go and release things into the universe that aren’t good for you.

Final Thoughts

When you are waiting for your manifestation to come to you, make sure that you are being positive and that you are keeping your vibrations high. Use things like positive affirmation cards or meditate to get your vibrations higher.

What is a Grey Aura?

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Grey Aura

All living things have an aura, and this is layers of color that surround your body on the outside. This is called your auric field and there are seven layers that make it up. With these layers, you can see the personality of people and what they are feeling or thinking about. The brightness or darkness of the color of the aura works with your chakras and the colors can change due to the change of energies.

People that have the gift to read auras can tell what color your aura is or their own aura. When you can look at the aura of someone, you can read their soul and know who that person really is. So, what if you have a grey aura?

Grey Aura

People that have the color grey aura are often mysterious people. They are calm and they do things that bring this kind of calmness to others. They are sometimes considered to be boring, and this is because they don’t let excitement fill them. Instead, they choose to live a life of peace and calmness. They don’t want to be part of drama and they will find other grey auras to follow. They will not want to have a lot of attention and they do what they can to blend in with others.

The grey aura does seem to have little emotions, and this makes it hard for them to connect with people. When they do, they often detach quickly because they like to do things on their own or they like to have their own space.

Those that have a grey aura work hard and they do whatever it takes for them to go on a deeper path. They are spiritual and they will sometimes isolate themselves. They love to learn new things and one of the ways that they love to learn the most is by reading. They see this as a way to grow and to learn exciting things.

This color also is grounded, and they know what path they want to take in their life. They have their own beliefs, and they don’t let anyone tell them what they should think or what they need to believe in. They are often considered to be old souls.

Grey Hue Aura Careers

Those with a grey hue are often spiritual and they’re drawn to this kind of work. They are devoted to teachings, and they are religious. They follow a life path of helping others and they will do this through meditation and through inner peace. They will live their life alone so that they can feel supported.

Shades of Grey

Here are some of the different shades of a grey aura:

  • Light Grey

This shade of grey is an aura that has feminine energies. This means that they are calming, and that people seem to relax when around them. They stay away from negative energies or even too much energy. They like to do things that are easy, and they like to stay calm and almost hidden. They’re positive and healing people.

  • Bright Grey

A bright grey aura is one that has been working towards their enlightenment. They are full of energy, and they have worked hard to brighten their aura and to let go of karma that has held them back. They are release their attachments and they often have a lower vibration because they don’t want to get deep into dramatic things. These are people that eat healthy foods and natural foods, and they avoid chemicals and fast to grow in their spiritual self.

  • Dark Grey Aura

This color aura is a masculine color. This is one that focuses on being serious and being disciplined. They sometimes say things rudely or harshly and they are overly emotional and often depressed.

  • Charcoal Grey Aura

This color aura is one that is mysterious. They have a hard time opening op to people, and they are often private. They are people that are heard to read, and they can block out the energies of others. They will have a lighter hue when they meditate and do self-work.

  • Silver Grey

A silver-grey aura is one that is able to manifest things into their life. They are able to connect with nature and they have high vibrations. They are attracted to things that they want, and they have enough faith to get these things. They are also someone that is purified and cleansed, and they have higher vibrational energies.

  • Grey and Brown Aura

A person that is sick might have this color aura. This happens because when they are feeling ill or they have some kind of sickness, their body changes and this can cause their aura to get darker. They might be full of drama or be stuck in bad feelings because of their physical bodies.

  • Grey Aura and Chakra

No chakra is given the grey color, but this can often be connected with the sacral chakra. This is the one that is connected to sexual organs and to the kidneys. Sometimes when someone is sick or they are experiencing a lot of pain, their aura will get darker, and this is where this color can come from. You can talk to a psychic if you need to balance your energies and have healing in your life.

Why is a Grey Aura Bad?

People that have a grey aura are often people that have a hard time making decisions. They see things in front of them as good, but they let fear control them. They will let people tell them things and then they will listen even if it doesn’t benefit them. They move away when something is negative, and they let others handle the hard things.

This is also a soul that is dull and predictable, and they don’t like to have attention. They will do the same things over and over again because they know that they are good at it, and they will stick with it. They won’t change their mind if they decide something.

Grey Aura and Love

The grey aura is one that is confusing, and they usually don’t feel totally connected in a relationship. They will invest in a relationship only if they feel safe and secure. They won’t ever feel this way though unless there is total honesty and unconditional love.

Do You Have a Grey Aura?

If you’re someone that likes to stick by themselves or someone that likes to stay hidden in the background, chances are that you might have a grey aura. This can be a different color of grey and this will depend on how you connect with others, what you are feeling and what you are thinking. If you are a faithful person, your aura might be bright but if you are negative, it could be darker.

Can Your Aura Be Grey?

Anyone can have a grey aura and the only real way that you will know what color of aura that you have is by getting an aura reading. You can talk to a psychic, and they can help you to find out what color your aura is. If you think that your aura is grey, wear something this color and meditate and you will see that you can keep your aura bright and clear. Meditation should be something that you do each day or even that you do weekly to keep your mind, body, and soul strong.