Finding a real connection is not always easy and there are times that you are with someone that you don’t always immediately click with them.  This can happen because the connection is not really there and even if the relationship is past the first few months or if the relationship is just about sex, you can tell if the connection is real or not.

Silence

When you are with someone that you have a real connection with, you don’t have the awkward silence that you have when you are around some people.  There is no anxiety and there does not have to be things said in order for things to be comfortable. When things feel anxious or stressful, the connection probably isn’t there.

Being Yourself

When you are with someone that you are connected with, you don’t have to watch what you say and worry that you are going to say something wrong.  You can be yourself and say whatever comes to your mind without worry.  This means that the conversation will be natural and can go from joking to something serious in seconds, but it flows smoothly.

Helping

Your true connection will always want to help you with your life and with your problems.  When you have a hard time figuring something out, your connection will come and help you find out what the problem is. When you connect truly with someone, you will have the peace of mind that they will help you through anything.

Comfortable

Having a real connection means that you are comfortable with who you are with.  Even if you are around someone new, if the connection is there, you won’t be nervous or scared to be who you are.

Sexual Attraction

Being sexually attracted does not mean that you are connected, but when you are connected, you will be sexually attracted to them.  When you feel that connection, you will tingle inside when they are around you.

Weirdness

Sometimes being weird is what makes you special.  If you have a true connection with someone, their weirdness should match yours.  Maybe you like to talk with a British accent, chances are he or she will want to do that too.  Both of you will be able to be ridiculous and fun together without judgment.

Fit Together

The two of you should fit together like a puzzle.  You shouldn’t have a hard time finding something to watch on television or what to eat.  Life should be easy, and you should fit together naturally if you are truly connected.

Strong Feelings

Being connected means that you will not question your feelings about them or their feelings about you.  If you get into an argument, you will make up fast and not question the relationship.  No matter how mad they make you, you can’t stay mad at each other long because there is too much good.

Inspiration

A person that is connected to you should inspire you to be a better person.  There is never enough time to spend with them and you are always hung on what they have to say next.  You want to be the best you and they want that for you.

Comfortable

Before you can have a real connection with someone, you have to be happy and brave in front of them.  You have to be able to say what you want and to do what you want and not feel weird around them.  They should make you comfortable but also at the same time they should want to push you out of your comfort zone so you can try new things, especially with them.

Darkness

We all have darkness in our life or in our past and your connection will bring this out in you.  They will want to show off all parts of you and want to know about things that happened to you that weren’t so good in your past.  They will share their secrets with you and expect the same out of you.

Eyes

Your connections eyes will say all that needs to be said.  You will be able to read what they are thinking and what they are feeling and vice versa.  You will be connected, and everything will be okay.

Always There

When you find a real connection, you will feel like they have always been there for you.  You will have a hard time remembering what life was like before them.  You will see that they fit with you perfectly and you will crave the time that you have with them, each and every day.

When you twin flame leaves, the pain you experience will be incredibly intense.  You will struggle to leave your bed and your promise of your unfulfilled dreams will be soul crushing.  As you begin to process this loss you will initial survive by detaching from the world around you.  The numbness may feel like a paradoxical healing balm.  However, with time, grace and patience you can begin to learn to live again.

Grief is a cruel teacher.  Despite the pain you are feeling, this separation will impart valuable lessons for you.  Be brave and become willing to shift your perspective to improve your chances to be receptive to this new chapter of your life.  Yes, your twin flame is gone, but you are whole just by being your authentic self!

Although it might not feel like it now, you are strong, powerful and deserving to be present in your life.  If you find it hard to accept these words, reread them again out loud and work to open your heart chakra a bit more.  Grief can create barriers of self-protection that prevent us from remembering these universal truths.  Be patient, gentle and nonjudgmental with yourself.  With time you will heal and love life again.

1. Understand what caused the separation

To find peace you must understand why this event occurred.  If the break was intentional, investigate the underlying issues that caused you both tension.  Any insights you gain will provide you critical lessons about yourself, your values and desires that will aid in your spiritual maturity.

2. Realize in the end you will be stronger!

Yes, you are sad and distraught now, but this ending is forcing you to look at yourself and your life in a whole new light.  By recognizing, understanding and working on the problems you will cultivate a renewed sense of resilience, fortitude and bravery.

3. Use self-expression to help you grieve and resurrect

Typically, people feel inclined to hide or stifle intense emotions.  Instead, be brave and lean into them and watch how you blossom.  Give your time and space to grieve.  Let your catharsis evolve into healing through the use of self-expression like journaling, painting, writing, dancing or singing.  Let the physical movement provide you mental and spiritual steps forward.

4. The pain won’t define you!

After a split it’s common for one to find themselves playing the victim card.  Sadness can feel like a warm snuggly blanket helping to protect us from further heartache.  Give yourself time to grieve, but then accept that pain is weakness leaving the body.  After the wave of hurt rolls by you will see that your character transcends the pain.  Be brave to acknowledge the pain when it arises and seek to learn what insights it seeks to provide.  These insights will help shine light onto the areas within you that need further healing.  The pain lays bare the true essence of you.  All pretenses and illusions are eradicated and you are now able to clearly see lingering wounds, insecurities, maladaptive beliefs and unhealthy attachments.

Pain is a battle scar that shows you have the profound capacity to love and love without fear.  Through grieving you will become reconnected to your gifts, talents, beauty and powerful desires.  When you can fully accept your pain and the split, you will glean the deepest truth that you have limitless potential.  Now that you are emerging through the grief you can reclaim your story and attain your goals.

5. Only we are responsible for our happiness

The bond we share with a twin flame helps us reach new levels of spiritual growth.  However, it is up to us to decide what is best for our personal well-being.  People are able to be whole and satisfied without the intersection of their twin flame.

6. Incorporation

Humans possess the gift of freewill.  We are able to take our daily experiences and chose what we wish to cultivate and what we chose to ignore.  While you are processing the loss of your twin flame, you must surrender to this moment and find peace that even this situation is meant to teach you something profound.  Only then will the suffering cease.  Trust your intuition and honor your spirit.  The act of surrender can take time and might require the release of multiple layers of your emotions and beliefs.  This is healthy, what is important it release at your own pace, anything that no longer brings light into your life.

Wrap Up

When you learn to unconditionally the totality of you, the good, the quirky and the shadow aspects, you will finally begin to heal.  Often heartbreak arises because of our own insecurities and fears.  We crave the acceptance and understanding that only we are able to gift ourselves.

Be open to the mysterious of life.  The future is an unpredictable and wild ride.  You never know who or what will appear around the bend.  Strap in and embrace the journey.

Even though you may not understand or realize this, there are beings in the spiritual realm that surround you at all times—even at this very moment. In fact, those spirit guides have accompanied you since the moment of your birth.

This is true not only of you but of everyone. These spirit guides have been with us since we were born and will stay with us for the rest of our lives. We also have temporary guides who stay with us for certain stages of our lives. Some are with us during our childhoods, while others remain with us for shorter or longer intervals, such as the specific period of time we spend learning to master a new skill.

What Spirit Guides Do

As the name implies, the main function of spirit guides is to provide guidance. Spirit guides are beings that once lived in human form, but through repeat incarnations, they have risen to the level at which they no longer require incarnation in physical bodies. They advance to function as spirit guides for people still living in the physical realm.

How Spirit Guides Help Us

Spirit guides provide guidance in many different ways, including so-called “gut feelings” or sending us messages in our dreams. But the most intriguing way to receive guidance may be to intuitively hear your spirit guides. To do this, you must awaken your extra-sensory abilities and develop your intuitive hearing—an ability known as “clairaudience.”

Clairaudience, literally translated as “clear hearing,” is the intuitive ability to hear sounds from the spiritual realm. People with clairaudience can hear sounds that are not from the physical world, including voices, songs, and music. In other words, clairaudients hear sounds made by spirit guides as well as angels and other non-physical beings.

Who Has Clairaudience?

Every person is born with intuitive hearing. But unlike physical hearing that has functioned naturally since before you were born, your intuitive ears must be stimulated and developed.

You may have already experienced your sense of clairaudience without even realizing it. If you ever heard a voice that nobody else could hear, or you answered because you heard somebody called you by name but nobody actually did, you heard spirit voices with your intuitive ears You were hearing spirit guides communicating with you.

Examples of Clairaudience

Developing clairaudience will allow you to hear your spirit guides’ voices, such as:

• Hearing their voices inside your head.
• Hearing clear, audible warnings that don’t originate with the people physically around you.
• Hearing entities call to you when you’re physically alone.
• Hearing things while you’re drifting off to sleep, such as conversations or music.

Developing Your Intuitive Hearing

While every person is innately able to hear sounds that originate in the spiritual realm, it will take some practice to listen to them at will. This ability develops at different rates from one person to another, with some people naturally developing it more quickly than others.

To develop your intuitive ability of clairaudience, practice the following steps every day.

1. Spend time in silence. Clear your mind by escaping from the noises of everyday life, such as vehicles, electronics, people talking, mechanical devices, and so on. If you can’t spend time in total silence, listen to the constant, low-frequency sound of a water fountain, or the ebbing and flowing tones of a relaxing breeze outside in nature. This will help you practice tuning your ears into other sounds.
2. Be aware. Ambient noises are so typical that we bareley notice them anymore. But when you’re trying to develop your intuitive sense of clairaudience, you must become aware of all physical sounds, however minor. For instance, next time you’re at a restaurant, separate the tread of passing feet from the clinking of utensils and the muted conversations of the other diners. This will help you fine-tune your intuitive ears to notice sounds that most other people pay no attention to.
3. Be more sensitive. As you become more aware of all of the sounds that surround you, you’ll learn to discern the sounds that do not originate in the physical realm. These spiritual sounds include conversations inside of your head, the sounds you hear when you’re falling asleep, and the tones of messages that jump out at you as you read. You’ll soon realize that you’re naturally hearing many things that other people aren’t hearing!

With regular practice and consistent discipline, you’ll learn to tune into sounds from the spiritual realm This increasing sensitivity naturally opens the way for you to regularly and more clearly hear your spirit guides.

When you are spiritually grounded, you will see that you live a happier and more excited life.  This can help you to feel better in yourself and can affect people around you positively.

Do you sometimes feel frustrated or stressed out?  Do you feel depressed or sad?  Do you always think how much better you would feel if you had a peaceful life full of calmness and relaxation?  If you are spiritually grounded, you can have this life.

What is Spiritual Grounding?

When you ground yourself spiritually, it means that you take your physical and spiritual energy and you tune it with your body.  You take a time and you shift your thoughts and your feelings.  This is especially important if you are a medium or a healer or if you have different psychic gifts.  When you practice balancing yourself, you can help get rid of problems that are following you around daily.

Non-Grounding

You can tell that you are not spiritually grounded when you have things happening to you.  Even though each individual is different, these are some things that are symptoms of not being grounded.  Some of these include shakiness, over tiredness, being lightheaded, feeling disconnected to the world, feeling like you are dazed and confused or even floating.

All of these things can happen when you are walking through your life and they can come just from picking up on energy as you walk around and go different places.

How Can Grounding Help Me?

Being spiritually grounded can help because it can help you to get rid of negative energies that are out of balance.  Sometimes there is extra energy around you, and it soaks into the Earth.  It can change the way that energy goes into your body and how it leaves your body back into the world.

You need to remember that sometimes different techniques help different people and you need to figure out what techniques help you and what experiences are unique in your life that can help you to become spiritually grounded.

Tips

Eating is one thing that can help to ground you and it is associated with energy.  Every time you eat, you have a body that is aware of what you are doing and you have a digestive system that has to help you and this can cause you to lose some of your energy that you need to calm down and connect in the world.

Sometimes, vegetables, especially root vegetables can help to ground you because they are grown under the surface of the earth and therefore, they are part of the planet.  They also are yummy to eat and can give you higher vibrations and can help with your intuition.  If you don’t have root vegetables, try other vegetables that you have with you.

Chocolate

Chocolate can help to give you back energy that you have lost.  This is a natural food that has been grown in pods on tress and this makes this food again, part of the earth and helps you to become one with nature.  Try to eat good quality chocolate that is raw and not full of other ingredients.

Nature

One of the fastest ways to get your energy back is to connect with nature.  You can do this just like your ancestors did.  Go outside and take off your shoes and walk through the dirt with your bare feet.  Go in the grass and let the dirt go between your toes.  Feel the world around you.

Bath

Use a high-quality salt bath to help you heal.  Do this with water so that you can ground yourself.  Use Himalayan salt or Hawaiian salt and soak in the bath for about half an hour so that you can level your emotions and your energy.

Meditation

Mediation is one of the best ways to get rid of negative energy and to relax.  Sit on the ground or in a comfortable chair and relax and take time to focus on the nature around you and your life and the positive energy that you need to get.  Become balanced.

Physical Activity

Moving around can help your body to become centered and your energy as well.  Try to focus on what you are doing and try some exercises such as yoga to get your body moving and your energies becoming positive.

All of these things can help you to ground yourself spiritually.  Try which ones are best for you when you feel down or yucky in your life.

How can you get money to come to you in abundance?  Attracting money can be easy and you might have to go against what you have been taught, but you can call on money.

Sometimes though, there are false beliefs about money such as:

• Money never runs out.
• You have to struggle to get money.
• Struggling hard can attract money but it can make you unlucky in life.
• Every person needs to worry about themselves and not others.

Issues of Money

Having money is not really what the issue is.  How to use money and what to use money for is what the issue is.  There are people who go into major debt because they buy things using credit cards.  Credit cards can make you feel like you are not really spending money because you are only signing slips of paper.

You will get the truth later when you get a monthly statement but for some, it is impossible to stay out of debt.  Some people do not have a high income and they have to go into debt to not starve and so they end up having to pay a lot of bills.

There is a better way to live than to be in debt.  When you believe that your heart, soul and mind can bring you money, then you can go far.  Having a gift form the psychic world is important and you need to open it up to bring money into your life.  You can attract money in abundance.

Avoiding

Notice it says you can attract prosperity because this is different than attracting money.  The problem is that when you attract money, can you handle it properly?  The answer is probably no because there are too many things that cause people to lose control.

There are always going to be temptations to spend money and if you have money then this can be a problem for you.  Even if you save money, there will always be the desire to spend.  If you see a bag you want or a jacket, then you will want to buy one.  Food is costly and there can be food that you want to try, so you will spend.

Life will take you on a spending binge and once you get through it, you go back to it over and over again.  You need to avoid the idea of attracting money and you need to put your energy into attracting prosperity.

Prosperity

Prosperity is more than just having money.  Prosperity is being able to get blessings from the universe.  This means being secure and having knowledge and not getting stuck in debt.  You can learn to solve money problems and you need to know that you can get out of debt with your mind by getting blessings from the universe.

It is all about the energy when you are trying to manifest money. The universe wants you to be playful and open so that your vibration is welcoming to cash. When you try to manifest money from desperation, it can actually block the abundance flow very quickly. However, if you do need to manifest money quickly out of need, it is possible.

Money is a tender topic for many people which means that we must keep the energy light and playful to manifest it appropriately.

The steps to do so are shared below:

Set Intention

Set your intention specifically for a specific amount of money and a time frame to get it. The universe will appreciate this intentionality. If we are unclear on intentions, then all types of surprises can pop up, rarely are these good. Put all your energy behind a very clear vision so abundance can flow. This is best on the new moon.

Imprint

Use the practice of imprinting both your subconscious mind and the field of energy to welcome prosperity and abundance. You must allow yourself to feel worthy of what you wish to receive. Do this by doing things like dressing in your best clothing, being thankful for what you do have, and using positive daily affirmations.

Feel as if it Happened

See yourself as receiving and give thanks for abundance, in spite of what the reality currently is in life. This will help unlock the desires. This can be done through visualization or manifesting meditation where the focus is having wealth, but never craving it.

Send Loving Energy

Rewire your mindset around money and bills. You are only getting in your own way. A negative attitude around bills blocks abundance flow and prosperity. Love your money as it is only energy.

Have Reverence and Respect for What You Have

Be appreciative and respectful of what you do have in life by taking care of it. The best way to respect money and revere having it is to keep it neat as it waits for use. Create a sanctuary in your purse or wallet so the money can feel loved and safe.

One Day at a Time

Be gentle on yourself when struggling financially so as not to sabotage your vibration with uncertainty. Keep your energy pure so the manifesting is productive.

These steps can have shocking results that manifest quickly once you get started.